「Am I Ambitious Enough?」
秋元晴日さん(イギリスQueenswoodSchool・18歳)
First and foremost, I would like to express my gratitude to my sponsor, Mrs Miyuki Matsuda for granting me the chance to attend this very motivating and exciting International Conference for Women in Business; without her support, I would have never been able to learn or gain what I am about to write.
This experience of hearing talks by female leaders, as well as some male figures, and meeting with them in person at this conference have inspired me in a number of ways, including providing me with role models, making me consider about “non-linear” careers and most importantly, making me realise the importance of being ambitious.
Firstly, this conference made my future ambition more realistic. On my business card I wrote “Future diplomat” as my title. This is my big dream that always seemed quite far away from where I was. However, meeting with Ms.Andrijana Cvetkovikj, Ambassador of Macedonia to Japan changed my perception. She is still in her thirties, yet she has achieved many, and she is in the position I aspire to be in. I think that one of the most important benefits of attending this conference for me was that I got to meet with many female role models who I truly admire. In the talkshow in the beginning of the conference, Ms.Mitsuru Claire Chino mentioned that “what is important is not where you belong, but who you are”,which inspired me to aim to become a woman who would be admired because of who I am, not of my title.
Secondly, I learned from this conference that career path can be “non-linear”, and especially for women, non-linear career paths are quite common. For example, after the first roundtable session, I had a chance to have a chat with Ms.Minori Takao, a NHK World news anchor. I primarily went to talk to her, because she has a degree in International Relations, which is the subject I will be reading in university from September. However, she told me how she started her career in mass media, which was totally different from her original ambition when she entered university. Therefore I came to realise that I should not be choosing what I do according to the relevance to my future ambition, but instead should I be more open to a wide range of opportunities and choose what I really enjoy doing, that would eventually lead me to a wonderful job that suits me. I had been working to get closer to my dream, but yet there seemed to be a certain career path that most people follow in order to work at Foreign ministry as a diplomat; reading Law at Tokyo University and get hired as a new graduate.
At the current situation, I am already not on the “right track”. However, since I am not on the royal road, I might as well take a detour, and thanks to this conference, I can now say with confidence that people who have non-linear paths are more interesting as persons, as well as having wider knowledge and perspectives.
Thirdly, this conference has taught me that being ambitious is good, and women should be more ambitious. The theme for the first roundtable session I have attended was “Women, Be Ambitious”. As Mrs.Yumiko Murakami, Director of OECD Tokyo Centre mentioned in the roundtable, OECD Pesa test showed many interesting results. Among them, I was most fascinated by the fact that 52% of girls have never spoke their opinion in school, as this was mainly due to girls not being confident enough. It was argued at the roundtable that women's confidence can reduce the performance gap between men and women, which I agreed very strongly. If we, women, could change our perspectives of “women”, It will most certainly enhance the possibility of the society to develop even further.
In the break time before roundtable sessions, Ms.Mohau Pheko, Ambassador of South Africa to Japan said to me, having looked at my business card — “Future diplomat? That's great to be ambitious! I look forward to seeing you achieving your goal.” It was such a short conversation, however that words from her were very rewarding, and at the same time these words encouraged me to stay ambitious and to never give up on my big dream.
Above all, I have had such a meaningful time at this conference, much more than I expected, with the world’s most admirable characters. I will treasure this 10.5-hour at the conference and the network of connections built there for the rest of my life, and will continue to strive towards my dream in my own way.
“Women, Be Ambitious!” — this has become my words to live by.